Rework the way database is open/re-open in aptly

Allow database to be initialized without opening, unify all the
open paths to retry on failure.

In API router make sure open requests are matched with acks in explicit
way.

This also enables re-open attempts in all the aptly commands, so it
should make running aptly CLI much easier now hopefully.

Fix up system tests for oldoldstable ;)

cmd/cmd.go

@@ -111,6 +111,7 @@ package environment to new version.`,
 		},
 	}
 
+	cmd.Flag.Int("db-open-attempts", 10, "number of attempts to open DB if it's locked by other instance")
 	cmd.Flag.Bool("dep-follow-suggests", false, "when processing dependencies, follow Suggests")
 	cmd.Flag.Bool("dep-follow-source", false, "when processing dependencies, follow from binary to Source packages")
 	cmd.Flag.Bool("dep-follow-recommends", false, "when processing dependencies, follow Recommends")